Quote of the Day: If I have to, I can do anything. I am strong, I am invincible, I am woman. Helen Reddy
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This popped up on my FB newsfeed yesterday. All day, I was suffering artist angst. Doubting, doubting, doubting why I even wrote this coffee play, why anyone would want to be part of it, and wondering why anyone would ever want to see it. Then, I had rehearsal with the best cast EVER! Thank you, all, for your creative energy. Thank you, Guy Kelm, for understanding my play even better than I do.
I think self-doubt rears its ugly head at the very moment you are about to have a break-through. The play went off with a bang, sold out audience in all the coffee shop performances. It was the most wonderful, creative, collaborative moment of my life.
I answered the challenge to submit a story for this year’s IWSG anthology, mystery/crime/thriller. Of course, “The Committee” tried to talk me out of it. You’re not a mystery writer, they said. You can’t write suspense, they tried to tell me. Who are you to write a story like that, they chanted.
So, I took my laptop up to my bedroom, shut the door, and convinced myself that I was simply practicing writing. I’d give it a try. I didn’t have to submit it if I didn’t think it was good enough. And, even if I did, it probably wouldn’t get accepted, so whatever I wrote would be buried somewhere in my computer files, which would some day crash and burn anyway.
The result is my short story One More Minute which was accepted into the next IWSG Anthology called Tick Tock: A Stitch in Crime! Isn’t the cover amazing? I was thrilled to have my story accepted. I felt validated as a writer. Then, when I started talking about the anthology and people asked me what my story was about, I hesitated. Um, well, it’s a story that fits into the mystery/crime/thriller category.
You know. Writing is really personal. It’s a glimpse into an author’s inner thoughts. And, even if you’re not a criminal, and what you wrote didn’t really happen, you feel somehow exposed. And, yet, you’ve brought something to light. You’ve given a character a story that might connect with someone, help them escape, give them courage, or provide food for thought.
So, keep writing and creating. Tell “The Committee” to go meet some place else. You’ve got work to do.
Go. Create. Inspire!
Journaling Prompt: What has “The Committee” been saying to you? What’s your smart-aleck response?
I hear you! The darkest of the night comes right before the dawn. You never know what you can do until you try. I’m stoked about your play success. That’s so epic!
Thanks Crystal.
All so very familiar. And good for you! I’m afraid my sass would be bleeped. It would look something like this, $#&? off!
Keep on bleepin’ doin’ it, Deborah!
Thank you for sharing this, and congrats on being selected for ‘Tick Tock’. (I’ll keep an eye out for self doubt so I can poke it in the eye!)
Ha ha, Angela. That’s totally what it deserves! (and, thanks)
I think you are spot on about the breakthrough happening right after our darkest moment.
You made the anthology! Now, they sky’s the limit with your writing.
Thanks, Alex. I’m spreading my wings.
That’s fantastic. Thanks for sharing your story. Its always validating when you get published, but to do it when all the little voices in your head are trying to shut you down is just icing on the cake.
Thanks, and it tastes even sweeter.
Congratulations on your successes and may they keep on coming. Whoop, whoop!
Thanks, Juneta
Congrats on being part of the IWSG anthology!
Thanks, Sandra!
Congrats on both successes. You earned them. 🙂
Thanks, Anna
My process was more or less like yours, Mary! Isn’t that funny? I’m not a crime writer. I thought, well, what do I know about crime? The plot I had didn’t feel like a crime story to me (because when I think about crime, I think about stabby, stabby, death, murder, mystery, mayhem, and a devious bad guy). Still, I wrote it, and I submitted it, because what did I have to lose? Nothing. And now, I’m honored to be in the anthology beside you—honored and surprised and humbled and beyond excited.
Also, my committee never stops. Never. I’ve just learned to let them make their little noise in the background. I’m just going to keep on keeping on and being fabulous, and so should you. 😉
You ARE fabulous, Sammie. Thanks for leaving such a wonderful comment. I’m so glad to be sharing the pages with you!!!
I second silencing the committee! I love when I can buckle down and just write to the finish.
Yep. All my breakthroughs have come when the darkness was the darkest. Nothing in in the sunshine and lollipops of life. Kepp going. You got this!
February 2018 IWSG Co-host
http://www.stephentremp.com
Thanks, Stephen. It’s good to remember this. The dark and the doubt are pushing you toward the light.
The committee needs to take a seat because you won a spot in the anthology! Woot!
That’s right! Thanks, Gwen.
What has “The Committee” been saying to me? That I won’t complete the 100words in 100days challenge.
What’s my smart-aleck response? 38 days done and only 62 more to go! I know I can do it!!
Oh that Committee! Don’t we all have one? And yes, they do rear their heads at the most inopportune times, just when we’re moving forward and gaining confidence. But you’re right! We can’t listen to them. We have to shut them off and work. Or. we have to let them yammer on and plug on anyway, letting their yakking move to the background like voices in a coffee shop.
Congratulations, again, on your story being selected! I can’t wait to read it!
Cheers!
Jen
I love Helen Reddy and anything she sings. I had to go to Wiki to see if she was still singing. I hadn’t heard anything about her lately.
You Go Girl! A huge congratulations for being chosen in Tick Tock. I’ve already pre-ordered my copy and I am looking forward to reading and reviewing it.
Isn’t it encouraging when you get confirmation about what is a part of your heart. Writing is as you say personal. We reveal parts of ourselves.
Wishing you all the best.
Shalom aleichem,
Pat G @ EverythingMustChange
Pat, thank you so much for the affirmations, for pre-ordering the book, and your enthusiasm to support it. You are a gem. Yes, go Helen Reddy! I am woman, hear me roar.
Congratulations on being included in the Tick Tock Anthology. That’s awesome! Never give up, my dear! You’re doing fine.
Thanks, Victoria!
Mary, congrats with One More Minute. Feeling validated is very cool. Well done!
Congrats, Mary. I’m so proud of you, not only for having a story accepted, but for having the courage to write it and submit it in the first place.
Just by taking those steps, you’ve accomplished great things. Don’t stop now!
Thanks, J. You inspire me.
Congratulations on your anthology contribution. Way to show that committee what’s what!
Thanks, Joey!