Quote of the Day: Writing is the only thing that when I do it, I don’t feel I should be doing something else. Gloria Steinem
Today is another group posting of the Insecure Writer’s Support Group! Time to release our fears to the world – or offer encouragement to those who are feeling neurotic. If you’d like to join us, click on the tab above and sign up. We post the first Wednesday of every month. You can also visit the founder Alex J. Cavanaugh for more info and links.
I’m one of the co-hosts this month. That means I’ll be visiting a few extra blogs and offering up support and encouragement. Thanks for stopping by here to read my post and say hello! The other co-hosts are: Ronel Janse van Vuuren, Ellen @ The Cynical Sailor, and Madeline Mora-Summonte.
Question of the Month: It’s been said that the benefits of becoming a writer who does not read is that all your ideas are new and original. Everything you do is an extension of yourself, instead of a mixture of you and another author. On the other hand, how can you expect other people to want your writing, if you don’t enjoy reading? What are your thoughts?
First of all, it’s impossible to write something completely new and original. You can tell it in your own unique way, create characters we’ve never met before, and give it your own spin, but the story won’t be completely new. You need to read to be a good writer. You build vocabulary and absorb sentence structure and style. You get a sense for how a story plays out. I do think, though, that you can, and maybe should, take a break from reading to form your own thoughts. Julia Cameron, author of The Artist’s Way, has a 12-step program detailed in her book to get over blocks and become an authentic writer/creator. Step four is “Reading Deprivation.” You’re not supposed to read anything for a week. I tried it, and it was hard. Reading is my go to relaxation. I read every day. I’m not always immersed in a novel, but give me five minutes, and I will be. I even took the exercise to the extreme and tried not to read anything, menus, directions, signs, which made me think about how hard it would be to navigate life if you couldn’t read. When I finally picked up a book again, something by Maya Angelou, it was like being given a drink of water or opening a window to let in fresh air and sunshine. It also gave my brain space to create its own stories.
I need to create more space to write the stories that swirl around in my brain. Maybe it’s time for a little reading deprivation, or letting something go.
I’ve been invited to speak at an event on leadership, women, and courage. At first, I asked, why did you pick me? Then, I embraced it. Someone thinks I have something to say on those subjects. Now, I need to be brave and deliver.
Go. Create. Inspire!
Journaling Prompt: What life experiences have made you stronger and braver? Ever tried reading deprivation?
I agree – there is nothing new under the sun, only the way we interpret it. What a terrible void there would be in my life without reading. And in my view, reading is an essential component of being a writer.
Congrats on the speaking engagement! Great that you’re embracing it, as the world needs to hear from strong women on those subjects.
Thank you. I’ll keep that in mind as my nerves try to take over.
Hi Mary, Reading Deprivation sounds scary. I don’t think I ever want to try it.
It’s tough. Only the brave survive!
I can’t imagine being a writer if you were not first an obsessive reader. And I don’t know how you’d succeed, unless you were a celebrity with a huge platform who could afford to hire ghostwriters and editors who do read.
Exactly. Good point, Nissa!
Exactly. We learn from others. Storytelling is as old as humankind. Why would we divorce ourselves from that tradition?
So, true.
Hi,
I have never tried reading deprivation consciously. I do know I have a problem if I don’t read even a few lines before I fall asleep at night. I read all the time. I have all my little books in my iPad and I take my iPad everywhere I go because that is my library with all my books.
Congrats on your upcoming speaking engagement and thank you for co-hosting .
Shalom aleichem,
Pat G @ EverythingMustChange
Thanks. Yes, reading, even a few pages before we fall asleep is good for us. It helps us relax and lets the stories flow in our own imaginations.
I’m not sure I could do reading deprivation. I read pretty much every day, even it’s just a page or two. Interesting idea though.
It takes great effort!
I gave up reading for a couple of months in grad school right before a series of big exams. It was horrible. The second they were done, I dove into Stephen King’s Insomnia. Oh, sweet relief.
As far as writing, I read so fast, I usually finish a novel in 4 to 6 days. Writing is so much slower. So I don’t worry about an author’s voice taking over mine.
Oh, to jump into a juicy Stephen King after deprivation. I’ve heard Insomnia is a good one. I’ll check it out!
Reading deprivation. I’m going to have to pass on that. 🙂
Congratulations on your speaking engagement! And thanks for co-hosting this month.
Thanks, CV. It was a challenge to not pick up a book, or even read online or other print material.
I have gotten a taste of reading deprivation when we travel to non-English speaking countries. I can’t even read and understand the billboards or signs or menus, etc. Thank goodness for my Kindle. With your theater background, I know you’ll be a great speaker. You go GRRL!
JQ Rose
Thank you so much! Yes, being in a country where you don’t speak, or read, the language gives you an experience of reading deprivation. It would be terrifying to not be able to read and try to navigate the world. You are so vulnerable.
With life and other obligations and time constraints I don’t read books for pleasure daily, but I am reading. It does make the time that I do have allotted for relaxation reads a real perk in my day.
So true. Some days, sitting down and reading isn’t an option, but it’s a promise for another day where you can escape into the story.
I had to laugh–I also worked through most of Julie Cameron’s iconic book, but I definitely skipped the reading deprivation exercise.
Funny. It’s the biggest challenge! I don’t think I’ll ever do it again.
Thanks for co-hosting today. I agree with you. It is impossible to write something new and original. It’s more than likely that someone, somewhere already written it. All you can do is write your story only as you can write it. With your own twist and spin on things and all.
So true, Lidy. Thanks for stopping by!
Reading deprivation does not sound like a good time to me. I’m impressed you did that, and it sounds like you learned something from the experience. There’s value in that!
Yes. It took great restraint.
Hi Mary,
The very thought of reading deprivation makes me anxious. It’s what I do when I’m not writing. But your point is well-taken; when the muse arrives on hummingbird wings, we must allow it to flourish.
While not every idea is original, we must embrace the fact that every writer is.
Best wishes on your speaking engagement, I have a feeling you’re going to inspire their socks off!
Thanks for co-hosting!
Thanks, Diedre. I like how you say, “every writer is” unique.
No reading for a week? That would be difficult.
Thanks for co-hosting today!
My pleasure, Alex. Thanks for all YOU do!
Good point about no new stories–like there are only five plots. It is the author’s voice, innit, and how do you know yours if you haven’t read?
Good luck at your presentation!
Thanks, Jacqui!
I’d tell those writers who worry too much and decide not to read as a result, to worry less about originality and more about writing a good story. That will stick with readers much better than a badly written unique story.
So true, Patricia.
Thanks for co-hosting. And I agree that there isn’t any really unique, and it’s a silly reason not to read. Congrats on your speaking gig! it sounds like a great topic.
Thanks, Natalie. I’m a little nervous, but excited, too.
I can’t imagine reading deprivation! Makes me nervous thinking about it. I usually sit at my desk in the library with a stack of TBR books for school plus one from home plus my e-reader. Yep. I’m addicted to books.
A healthy addiction, Jennifer. I have it, too.
Many years ago, when I first read The Artist’s Way, and I got to the part about not reading, my response was “Nope.” 🙂 Good for you for following through on that exercise!
It was hard! I was on vacation, which in some ways was good. I spent time talking to my sister and cousin, meeting new people, but I also missed escaping into a story. Plus, we stopped at a really cool used bookstore. I had an armload!!!
I always think that although there are no complete original ideas, there are so many different elements that make up a story that it will always be unique.
There are always new characters to meet.
That’s pretty cool that you were invited to speak at an event! Congrats and good luck!
Thanks, CD!
A week without reading would be incredibly difficult!!! Maya A is a great choice to break that kind of fast!
It was delicious! I almost cried at her beautiful language.
Congratulations on being invited to speak! That’s wonderful. Indeed, go, do, create. And thanks for co-hosting this month.
Thanks, SE!
I could sign under every word of your post, except Reading Deprivation. Not sure I could do it. When I finish a book and have nothing new in my TBR stack, I tend to panic.
There is always something waiting in that enormous TBR stack!
I read Julia Cameron’s “The Artist’s Way. I failed utterly at the reading deprivation. I couldn’t make it through the first day. Kudos to you for doing so. And thanks for cohosting today!
Thanks. It’s fun to read people’s reaction to the Reading Deprivation exercise!
You were brave to try life without reading. I hadn’t even thought of attempting the experiment. I think that to truly do this one would have to have never read. I’ve had things swirling in my brain since I was a tiny child ready by the crack of light that streamed under my bedroom door. I would never recommend giving up reading, though. The books we read become part of our world, part of our authentic selves. Great blog!
Thanks, Heather. Well said.
Need to read indeed and have some space for the new stories our brain wants to tell to creep in.
Yes, Pat.
The only problem I have with reading other books is the envy I feel at the wonderful way they put their sentences together. Other than that, it’s Impossible to write well without reading widely.
Oh, yes. I sometimes feel envy, too.
I couldn’t go an entire week without reading. Congrats on your speaking engagement. Sounds like fun.
Thanks, Susan!
Congratulations on the speaking opportunity, Mary! I think you’re perfect for it.
I’d find reading deprivation very difficult as well, though when I’m teaching a lot, I don’t have as much time for it as I’d like.
Thanks for co-hosting!
Thanks, J.H. I appreciate your confidence in me!
Great post! Good luck with the speaking engagement!
Thanks, Ronel!
Ooh, I’ve never tried not reading for a week. I know when I’m in full on writing mode I tend not to read so much – I think that’s just because of what my brain is focused on at that point. But deliberately not reading anything??? Hmm part of me likes the challenge, whilst the other part just ran away screaming!
Angela, Yes. Good response. 🙂
For a while, when I was young and poor, I tried reading only the books that were given to me for free. I didn’t suffer for **lack** of reading, but I burned out pretty quickly, just because I wasn’t choosing the books I WANTED to read. The plus side was that I wound up reading a wide range of things that I probably would never have touched, if I was choosing. Definitely not a forever kind of reading, but I still do my best to work in some of those odd recommendations, and oddball ideas.
That’s a great exercise. I need to read the ones I already have before I buy more. And, like being in book club, you read titles you never would have picked up on your own.
Thanks for co-hosting this month. Congratulations on your speaking engagement. As much as I love to read, I agree and admit, there have been times when I’ve stayed away from reading to clear my head; a week is pretty good. I’ve also done the same with writing. If I’m “on a roll” and writing non-stop for an extended period of time, I will take a break from writing to clear my head. Especially if I start seeing the characters I’m writing walking around in real life (I know they’re not really there).
Thanks, Toi. I do the same.
When you’re driving, it would be really hard not to read the signs.
True. I did do that!
Congrats on the speaking engagement that is so awesome. Happy IWSG!
Thanks, Juneta!
Not sure if I could hack reading deprivation. Though I’m not big on deprivation of any sort, really. Life’s too short.
So, true, Samantha!
Ack! I have The Artist’s Way, and plan on working my way through it soon, but I can’t sleep if I don’t read something!!
That was the most challenging week, for sure!
Congrats on the request to speak. That is such a compliment, and I’m sure they’ll be glad they asked y ou.
Thanks, Lee!
I’m not sure I could go a whole week without reading. I’d be like a person traveling the desert, so thirsty for water I’d dive into the first well I came across–and probably drown. lol
Thanks for co-hosting this month.
Very good answer! Thanks for co-hosting.
Thanks, Deb!
It would be really hard to not read ANYTHING for a week. No books, articles, blog posts, social media posts, poetry, etc.
It takes discipline, and lots of distractions!
The reading and writing theme is an interesting one to me, as I always think with “reading” (as a writer), they mean reading books. I love reading books, but they are a big time commitment. I often find myself prioritizing reading emails, blog posts, and articles. And rereading blog comments, my diary, and work assignments. No wonder, I rarely have time to read novels…
Not reading anything for a week sounds insane. Not reading a book would be easy for me, despite my enjoyment when reading books. As I mentioned before, it’s the first thing that falls down my list of entertainment options, unfortunately. Yes, I know it shouldn’t, but if you try to build an online community, the virtual world has taken over. 🙁
All that being said, I’d love to take a week off from all of this reading, but not rereading my diary entry would drive me crazy, as I can’t stand typos or failed auto-corrected words. 🙂 Good for you, being deprived of reading for a week. I totally get how this can create space for your own stories! Thanks for co-hosting!
Great reflection on Reading Deprivation. It is an interesting experiment, and yes, it forced me to be creative and seek stories in other ways. Like talking to people and being observant of my surroundings. Also, it made me appreciate being able to read to get along in this world.