Letter of the Day: F
F is for the Final Curtain for our feline friend Matilda.
Here she is with her best boy, Zach.
As I mentioned earlier this week, Matilda hadn’t been eating. At first we thought it was her teeth, so the vet did a dental extraction. She still didn’t eat much. I brought her in. We tried a few more things, but still she seemed disinterested in food. On Tuesday, the vet took an x-ray and diagnosed cancer. I sat with her on my lap and let the tears fall. We all said our last good bye on Wednesday morning. Charlie wanted to play one last song for her on the piano. Matilda loved to sit on the bench when my students came for lessons, or when I played. (See my post on Pet Therapy.) Charlie played, What a Wonderful World.
Zach and I took her to the vet and held her until the last. He was so sad, he couldn’t even go to school. I went to my noon workout at the Y. When I came home, he had engraved the clay paw print disk that the vet made for us.
When a show has finished it’s run, the last performance has “The Final Curtain Call.” The actors linger a bit longer on stage, shed extra tears, and give each other tender hugs. As soon as they leave the stage, they will strike the set, and the performances will be but a sweet memory, lingering in the clouds, and yet the experience was worth the brief moment that it existed. The orchestra has stopped playing the music, but the song lingers on.
Journaling Prompt: What are some precious momentos that you keep?
That is such sad news. I know how heartbreaking it can be to lose a pet. That clay disk is a nice memento to hold on to.
Oh my God, Mary… I cried as I read about poor Matilda. One of the reasons I decided not to have more pets (dogs & cats) is because of situations like this; they are especially hard on our children.
I had mentioned before that my son Ernie has three pet rats, which I now adore! Rats span of life is just from 2 to 3 years… one of them is 2 years old and shows serious signs of aging. I am sure we will be crying for our ratty babies sometime in the near future.
((((( hugs )))))
Doris
I’m so sorry! Making that decision is always so hard. Wish our furry friends lived as long as we do.
What sad news this morning, I’m sorry about Matilda. Our pets have such a way of stealing our hearts, don’t they?
Sorry to hear about Matilda. Parting is never easy but wonderful memories will always be there.
Sorry for the loss of Matilda. She sounds like a great cat.
Mary, I’m sorry to hear this. We lost our cat three years ago and it was one of the saddest experiences of my life. They say the grieving for pets is shorter than for humans, but sometimes just as intense because the pets have no flaws. I hold on to the hope that it will be as C.S. Lewis speculates in The Problem of Pain, and that our domestic pets may be bound for heaven too.
I am so, so sorry. Losing a beloved pet is losing a family member. I’ll be praying for your kiddos (and you). 🙂
Once again, my condolences for Matilda. The clay paw print is a beautiful idea to remember her by. All my best to you, Zach, and Charlie in the coming days.
Sorry to hear that. My mother recently lost her cat Malcom to a feline virus. I know you’ll miss her.
((((Mary)))) to you and your boys. I am so sorry to hear about Matilda.
I am so sorry about your lovely Matilda.
Missing our piano visits, playing for Matilda. Love you.