Quote of the Day: Just what makes that little old ant, think he can move that rubber tree plant? Anyone knows an ant – can’t – move a rubber tree plant, but he’s got high hopes. He’s got high hopes. He’s got high apple pie in the sky hopes. So, any time you’re gettin’ low, stead of lettin’ go, just remember that ant. Oops! There goes another rubber tree plant. from The Rubber Tree Plant Song (remember this was Shirley’s theme song from the Laverne and Shirley show?) The skating show I saw this weekend had an old-time TV show theme. (Yes, my friends, the shows we watched as kids are now the old-time shows.)
{Sorry there are no photos. Very unusual for me. I sat next to a local professional photographer at the show and I’ll link to her blog when the photos are available. They will be worth the wait.}
My best writer-mama-pal, Roxane at Peace Garden Writer, sent me this article from The Urban Muse. The writer challenges those of us who create to dare to take risks. We need to write, create, paint, dream, and put ourselves out there with the same fearlessness whether we succeed or fail. As I was reading that, I thought, it’s not really whether or not that creation succeeds or fails. To me, failure only exists when we allow those fears to keep us from trying, or to quit because of perceived roadblocks, feeling not good enough, or being rejected. Any given work can be accepted or rejected, and even the rejection could be temporary. All we can do is create what we are led to do, the rest is up to God and the creative universe.
I watched the local figure skating club’s annual show this weekend. I was a proud piano teacher. Several of my students skated, and I loved watching them. They have great rhythm, naturally!
I feel a metaphor coming on…
We watched skaters from beginners to pro. The beginners were so cute, I could hardly stand it! They shuffled along, showed off their forward motion, and skating backwards. They wiggled their hips to the song and did a few hand actions. I whistled and cheered. A few fell, but they all got right back up and into formation, and continued the routine. I thought, maybe one of the first things they’re taught is how to fall gracefully without getting hurt and feeling like failures, thus leaving the ice in tears. No one cried. No one quit. Sometimes you leap and spin and land solidly and glide on into the applause. Other times, you wipe out. The audience holds their breath and wishes you success, every time you try! Just like our creative work, folks. Sometimes, we nail it. Sometimes, we have to pick ourselves back up, and try all over again.
Go. Create. Inspire! And, dare to risk the fall.
Journaling Prompt: Name your fears, purge them out, then go boldly in the direction of your dreams!
Mary, and after watching so many ice-skating shows over the years and seeing so few wipe-outs, at least in the Olympics, I have to believe that so much of it is in the MIND. Our minds are SO powerful, aren’t they? They can help us be successful or not. I remember the moment I realized that, in high school during track season. Once I unlocked that mystery, I was on my way to the state championship. Seriously. It was so amazingly powerful. And we can apply that to any area of our life!
It seems that with creativity, we have to take risks in order to move forward with our work. Risk opens doors with our writing, painting, photography in a way. It’s when we really “see” the artist.
Yes, dare to fail to succeed. We all have our limitations but we can push ourselves to scale higher. That’s when we achieve. Thanks for your inspiring post.
Exactly! No writer or artist should be bullied by fear or rejection. Keep going 🙂 With writing and reading comes practice & experience, which can help improve us for the future as well. 🙂 🙂
My mom used to always say to me Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right. I think that was Henry Ford’s quote originally but it always made me think. I bet those beggining ice skaters were really cute!
Love Laverne and Shirley and I will be singing that song all day now! :O)
I like the encouragement and support here. Thank you, peace,
Diane
As soon as I wipe the tears from my eyes, I’ll respond to this…
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Ok, I think I’m fine now. I have a nasty habit of NOT doing things, trying things because I’m so scared of failing, of wasting time, of wasting supplies. I’m notorious for starting things and never finishing them. Why? Fear. Yep, that old nasty bug-bear fear.
And fear of what? Failure, yes, but also…dare I say it…success? Success is scary, it’s intimidating, it’s a HUGE responsibility. I just realized something. Here I am, blogging about being all bold and fearless and I have yet to face my biggest fear yet: Being 100% ME and creating with wild abandon. Oh yeah, and risking failure in order to succeed.
Thanks, Mary. You ROCK!
~Jen