The Quote of the Day that inspired my A to Z Challenge theme –
A Word for the Day that takes on many meanings.
Quote of the Day: A writer lives in awe of words for they can be cruel or kind, and they can change their meanings right in front of you. They pick up flavors and odors like butter in a refrigerator. John Steinbeck
Word of the Day: Extreme
Definitions:
Furthest point from the middle of something
Far beyond the norm
Being of the highest degree or intensity
Very strict, rigid, or drastic
I watched the Oscar nominated movie Extrememly Loud and Incredibly Close this past weekend, an adaptation of the novel by Jonathan Safran Foer . This is a story of the inward and outward journey of Oskar Schell, a nine-year-old boy, whose father was killed on September 11, 2001, in the World Trade Center, “The Worst Day”. Even before his father’s death, his life was a quest. He wants to know the answers to everything, the why, the how, the where. His dad tells him the story of a “Sixth Borough” in Manhatten, sort of like a lost Atlantis. Together, they are seeking the answers to the mystery of its existence. When Oskar’s father is killed the purpose for the quest changes. He found a key with his father’s possessions and can’t rest until he’s found where it fits. Along the way, he meets people who share their stories with him. He says, “It seems everyone has lost something.”
His longing is to make sense of his father’s death and the world. He wants to move closer to his dad, but feels he is moving further away, until he figures out who his grandfather is and learns that most people are trying to recover from trauma. The song that ran through my head by the end of the movie from Survivor, “The search is over. You were with me all the while.” (The actual score for this movie has a gorgeous orchestra song that has a question and answer feel between the keyboard and the strings.)
I feel like I got just a glimpse at what this story is really about. We’re at each of the Black residences so briefly that I don’t really know who they are. I don’t understand why Oskar’s mom seems to have survivor’s guilt on top of her grief, like she’d never been a good enough wife even before “The Worst Day.” It was like getting the abridged version of the book. Those always leave me feeling less than satisfied.
Still, this is a good movie, about moving on after trauma, dealing with guilt, and finding the answers to what you are seeking. Tom Horn is extremely talented and incredibly bright, and he makes this film come alive. Many characters learn to put things into perspective. I wonder if it offered healing to the people who were affected by the World Trade Center attack? I hope so.
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Journaling Prompt: Have you read the book or seen the movie? How do they compare? Do you like adaptions from book to screen? Which ones work, and which ones don’t?
Haven’t read or seen the book/movie, but I’m intrigued… Book is going on TBR 🙂
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Wonderful E post. No I haven’t read the book. but not sure if it could be found here in the UK.
Yvonne.
I’ll have to read the book. Have seen the trailers for the movie but for some reason I was worried I’d find it really sad–but this sounds optimistic. Thanks for the review, Mary.
This seems like something I’ll enjoy.
I don’t usually enjoy screen adaptations of books. They never really fit in my imagining of it. Though, of course, there are some very good ones like Rebecca.
It’s sounds like something I would like to see. The trouble with giving up TV and movies, I also give up some enjoyment. I still sneak a peak at my old favorites but now I’m again at the ranch and no TV. Books are again my solace.
I’ve got this book on my Kindle. Now I have to read it.
Karen
I loved the book, and while I don’t expect the movie to be as good, I am looking forward to seeing it. Maybe even this weekend. I do enjoy film adaptations of books I like. It’s interesting to see someone’s vision of a common experience. Of course, the book is almost always better. One notable exception for me is Wonder Boys. I loved the book, but the movie was even better.
‘He found a key with his father’s possessions and can’t rest until he’s found where it fits.’
Yep.
Wow, that sounds amazing, I haven’t read the book or seen the film but I’ll definitely be looking out for it! Thank you for this great post 🙂
Nikki – inspire nordic
I refuse to watch the movie or read the book. It’s not that I don’t find it beautiful but on the contrary, it is so touching and real, that I know I’ll cry from beginning to end and I’ll end up depressed. Yes, I know. I’m a pathetic wimp who gets depressed by a movies. But I can’t change what I feel and dealing with the lose of a dear one is something that I don’t do very well. However, I truly think this movie and book can change people and can help a lot of them to heal.
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From Diary of a Writer in Progress.
The book sounds really fabulous. I haven’t read or seen, but I like the way you’ve described it. I really like journey books–whether simple like The Alchemist, or far more complicated, I love the story of emotional growth and discovery.
The previews for the movie look to tear jerking for me to watch. I guess I’m just kind of a softie when it comes to movies like this.
Hi Mary!
I haven’t read the book, or seen the movie. Thanks to your review, I’m now going to do both! Thanks…
I actually didn’t know the movie was based on a book–haven’t seen it, or read the novel, but I think the book might be a must-read!
I imagine it’s pretty extreme though – the emotional journey. Much to think about!
This was a great, honest review. I usually am disappointed when seeing a movie based on a book I’ve read.
Denise
Great review, Mary. I haven’t read the book or seen the book but have had both jotted down. It’s interesting how the hook, the key, goes so deeply into literature and myth yet fast forwards to become a bridge.
I’ve wondered about whether I should see it or not. (Because of the sad factor) And I definitely want to read the book. The book is always the better choice for me. But it looks like I’m going! What a fantastic review, pal. I hope it offered healing too. 🙂
I’ve been thinking about watching this one when I get the chance. I didn’t know it was a book so I might try and check that out first.
Whoa – haven’t seen the movie, or read the book, but I’m sure gonna now! Thanks – great post!
Hi Mary,
Just watched the movie this afternoon. At first I was a bit skeptical of the movie…and although I shed tears throughout the movie, I found it to be inspirational. I wasn’t aware that the movie is based off a book–definately will have to check it out. I loved how the movie showed we everyone has a story…