Quote of the Day: I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.~ Jimmy Dean
This is a famous quote that you’ve probably heard before. It speaks to what we can control in our lives and what we can’t. For the most part, we control nothing but our own reaction to the situation or person or outcome. We can keep adjusting our “sails” by thinking of new ways to do something to feel successful.
I was trying to take a picture of Eric and our cat Leo. You can pick Leo up, but you can’t make him look in the right direction.
Switch directions
Okay, that didn’t work either.
Moved in closer, tried to snap faster (quick, he’s looking my way!), and got a fur face.
Finally, Eric set Leo on the ground where he calmly laid down.
Eric adjusted his “sails” to fit Leo’s comfort.
I adjusted my “sails” of what would make a great picture,
and viola!
Here’s the thing. In our lives, especially in our creative endeavors, we can’t control who will show up or how they will respond to what we’ve created. All we can do is create what is in us and wants to come out. We’ll build up our inventory, polish our skills, and eventually we’ll shine. More than one of us has walked away from an event that felt less than successful. But, is that all perspective? So, only a few people were there, not much money was earned, but what did you gain from the experience. I think of writers who sit at book signings all afternoon and sell only a copy or two. Was it a waste of time? I don’t know. Maybe the joy was in sitting in a bookstore for an afternoon chatting with the workers, browsing the shelves, drinking coffee, connecting with that one buyer who really wanted to read your book.
Or, maybe that feeling of “this just isn’t working” is your call to try a new perspective. What preconceived notion do you need to let go in order to find just the right fit?
Go. Create. Inspire! and look for success in new ways.
Journaling Prompt: When have you felt blue about your art? How did you adjust your sails?
Love this post today. I am adjusting my sails with my singing. I’m being told I’m “not as good a singer as my two partners” so I’m re-thinking song choices and starting to play more to my strengths. It’s hard to hear, but helpful in the long run.
Karen
I loved how you used Leo as a way to introduce this topic. What a great way to make the point. And it’s so true, isn’t it? That really was Leo’s comfort level — being on the ground. Love it! And the post was great. It follows nicely with my Wednesday post, about submitting something and waiting to hear back, feeling anxious about that and forgetting what the act of writing actually allowed and how it changed you. Great post!
What a great post, Mary. Love that quote. Excellent. Leo’s comfort level is down where he can feel the ground beneath his paws. 🙂 It made me wonder about my comfort level. Made me aware. Even without chocolate! hehe (((HUGS)))
I just want to keep others from adjusting my sail. 🙂
Um, now? Since I have no really good idea what I’m going to do for the third book.
This is great. Adjusting my sails is where I’m at. Inspiring. Glad to have found your blog!
My sails are in dire need of adjusting right now. Trying to figure the best way to do it.
Thanks for the gentle reminder. 🙂
I love the “not working” photos as well–sometimes we need to adjust what we think of as success! Leo is a star! As is Eric.
I often think about this when I am at a craft show that is going very slowly, with not many people stopping by the booth or making purchases, or saying snarky things as if I’m not there. And yet, the last time this happened, someone had taken our card, and said she’d contact us about making 6 door signs and she wrote us as soon as she got home to commission them. We are always making connections, even if it doesn’t feel that way. It’s hard when frustration and fatigue make get in the way of remembering that!
I can control how fast the person in the car behind me is going. 🙂
Eric has a great smile.
When I feel blue about my art, I just have my mom read it. She thinks everything I create is AMAZING.