Quote of the Day: It was late one winter night, long past my bedtime, when Pa and I went owling. There was no wind. The trees stood still as giant statues. And the moon was so bright the sky seemed to shine. Somewhere behind us a train whistle blew, long and low, like a sad, sad song. from the first page of Owl Moon by Jane Yolen
I went camping with the Flying Eagle Scout Patrol this past weekend. We are in Central Minnesota where it starts to get very cold at night by mid-October. In fact, last year at this time, we’d already had our first snowfall of the season. We did not have snow, but temperatures dropped below 30 degrees overnight. We slept in thin tents intended for summer camping. I slept in a sleeping bag on top of an air mattress, sandwiched between my twin sons and piled three blankets on top of us. I tried to read a little by the light of my flashlight, but my fingers got too cold, so I turned out the light, snuggled down inside the sleeping bag, pulled the top over my head, which was covered by my winter cap, and tried to sleep.
I heard all the sounds described in Jane Yolen’s book Owl Moon, including an owl! I sleep lightly, and when you’re outside in a thin tent, you hear every neighborhood dog, cars driving by, and the train. But, somewhere in the night while drifting in and out of dreams wondering how on earth someone could survive being homeless in Minnesota in the winter, I heard the screech of an owl.
A local group called New Pathways sponsors what they call a “camp”aign to raise awareness of homelessness in Central Minnesota. The kids brought home a flyer about it last week. They host an overnight experience where groups can sleep in a tent or a cardboard box. They also raise money to help homeless people in our area and support the Soup Kitchen.
I tossed the flyer in my recycle bag. I thought, I can feel compassion for the homeless without sleeping in a tent on a cold October night. After our scout night, I paused with our boys and said, “We just had our own ‘Tent City’ experience,” and we talked briefly about how hard it would be to have to find shelter and food if you were homeless.
I came home feeling grateful. I always had options. I didn’t have to stay in that tent all night long. I could have gone inside the house. (We camped in the Den leader’s yard.) I could have gone home. In the morning, I went home and made a pot of hot coffee. I washed my face in warm water. And, later in the day, I soaked in a hot bathtub and took a long nap on my comfortable couch.
That campout taught me so much. I learned that I can survive a night in a tent, wrapped in many blankets and snuggled close to the warm bodies of my boys. I learned that I have so much while others have so little. I learned that the will to live is strong, and your outlook is greatly improved by a hot meal and a warm bed.
The Coats for Kids drive is on for one more week. I plan to drop off something warm for a child who needs the protection from the cold and the hope from someone who cares.
Journaling Prompt: Have you ever had a “Tent City” experience? Have you contributed to or needed a social service? What are you feeling grateful for?
Thanks for the reminder of what I have to be grateful for, which is so much. I could feel the cold air and hear the owl. Years ago I camped many times for fun in the wilds of the Sierra Mountains in California but I never associated those experiences with homelessness. I’m going to check with the homeless shelter here to see how I can help. Thanks again.
Sometimes small experiences make us more aware of our blessings. Our materialistic world can make us easily forget how to be grateful for many things. I would like to sleep under the stars which I haven’t done for far too long.
Thanks for the reminder. I need to remember on the days I am moping my house is too small or cluttered, at least I have one. One SuperMom Merit Badge for YOU!
We need to look around each day and remember our blessings. They aren’t to be taken for granted.
Your camping trip looked like so much fun.
Hearing that owl must have been an amazing experience, I’ve never heard one. But I am grateful for the way nature beautifully touches our lives.
Gratitude is something it only takes a moment to find – we need to look for it more often. Thanks for the reminder, Mary. And I LOVE Owl Moon!! 🙂
You’re brave. I think I had enough of late-fall camping when I was a Girl Scout (which I otherwise loved.) And I have to read Owl Moon now.
By the way, I left an award for you on my blog.
Every time I read your blog, you are doing one amazing thing or another.
I am grateful every day for everything.
I will never forget one FREEZING night on a school camping trip. A pile of high-schoolers with inadequate sleeping bags huddled together for warmth, shaking and still chilled to the bone in the 40 degree weather.
By contrast, I slept out one night in 40-degree weather with a sub-Arctic sleeping bag and was cosy and comfy all night long by myself.
Supplies make a big difference, whether you’re camping or homeless.
Ohhh, I’m shivering just THINKING of this!!!
Praise God for your willingness to learn and experience new things.
I am not good at all in this area.
Am sitting in the writers cave with my houseshoes and my little heater, and it probably isn’t below 50 outside and is 70+ in the house.
Have missed my visits here.
You always inspire me!!
Patti
in some ways I guess after awhile people adjust to their situations, which really is even sadder. it is like a loss of hope.
every year we do a blanket, coats, mittens, socks donation. I often go to a local liquidation place and buy the dollar socks and gloves and donate them. sometimes they are wool … i guess discontinued or something . I hope it helps , it gets very cold here in Ontario as well.
Mary, such a great lesson to be reminded of, for certain. And coupled with Owl Moon…well, you are a great blogger. I always love your posts. There’s always something deep within the ordinary. 🙂 We’re up next for a camping adventure, but we’ll be in a toasty cabin. Still, there might be some moments of realizing how good we have it. I’m sure there will be.
I admire you as a mother. You are there to bond with your boys and experience adventure with them. I also admire your compassionate heart and how you connect your own experiences with those who may be suffering. You are a gem!
Oh Mary, what a wonderful memory for your boys! The moon was absolutely beautiful and the sky was so clear here last night! I love Owl Moon, and use it in my writer’s workshop at school. I’ve been thinking about you this week too…that spirit that connected us is so very, very real!