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The thing is, I can make myself crazy by thinking about and doing all the external prep involved in hosting a party, but the truth is, relationships win out every time. I spent last weekend tidying up the place, washed the floor, put things away, did laundry. Monday, I came home from my workout and all the boys, who are now home for summer vacation, and half the neighborhood boys as well, were having a Nerf gun war in the house – the WHOLE house! The cat was in and out. Dirt was on the floor. Nerf bullets were everywhere, and I just said, “Please clean it up afterwards.” So, we’ll have a party in my imperfect house, with stray Nerf bullets, a touch of clutter, but filled with fun. I don’t have time to stress about the outward appearances. It’s too late to powerwash the house and stain the deck. Besides, the most important part is the food, for which I am getting excellent assistance. My good friend helped me find fun decorations – going with a Southwest theme for the party, and it’s all about the boy.
So, what does this have to do with the Insecure Writer’s Support Group? Everything. We can be insecure about everything we do. We can obsess over the external. But, what we really need to do is connect and keep it real. The clients of Blue Cottage Agency are doing that by attending each other’s events. The other authors came to my play. I’ve been to their readings and launches. I feature them on this blog. I plan to write about them for magazines, or whatever. We are a support network in real time. You readers are a support network in a global and spiritual sense. Thank you.
Go. Create. Inspire!
Journaling Prompt:Â What can you do to support local artists in your area?
Great post Mary! I try to go support my fellow musicians whenever possible so live music continues to have a presence in the world.
i’m still getting to know who the artists are. i look forward to supporting them.
This is wonderful. I try to read and recommend books by local authors. Sounds like The Blue Cottage Agency is a wonderful group.
Mary, this post is awesome! You nailed it – it all comes down to relationships.
I think you should bring out the Nerf guns for the party. Who knows? It might be fun!
Peer support and networking is so important amongst all artists… singers, dancers, painters, poets, writers etc. It also helps to sustain the industry.
Great post!
I am so predictable on going nuts before I’m to have a gathering at my house and I hate me when I do that.
Insecurity definitely spills over into other areas.
Teresa
I did not know when I chose the quote of the day that the legendary Ray Bradbury had passed away. The universe was in charge. Thank you, Mr. Bradbury, for your incredible imagination, your stories that live on.
our church has brought back the coffee house–where local kids get to showcase their stuff!–enjoyed this post a lot!
Great post, Mary! I laughed out loud on the stain the deck/powerwash the house comment! thank you for coming to the book launch last nigh! It was so great to have your support; it warms my heart to see the Blue Cottage writers continually support each other!! We all need people in our corner!!
I go to all the book releases in my local area, love to show support, especially for Indie published authors.
House of fun sounds great.
Hey,
I do as much as I can to link everyone I mention on my blog and appreciate when folks do the same.
As I am on an island with no writer’s conference and few groups (I think!) it’s been hard supporting like-minded musers, but that hopefully will change one day 🙂
I was hoping you’d write publicly about the Nerf guns. That was a classic Rude moment. And you traversed it better than you even realized. I know the party will be a hit, because you’ll be making it so through who you are, and Bobby too, of course. Enjoy!
I agree. The most important part is the food!
Couldn’t agree more with going, creating and writing. Lovely post!