Quote of the Day: The events in our lives happen in a sequence in time, but in their significance to ourselves, they find their own order…the continuous thread of revelation. – Eudora Welty
A new piano student started with me this week. She came to the door all smiles and bubbly. Her palms might have even been a little sweaty. She reminded me of myself on my first day of piano lessons. This student was so eager to learn piano that she called me up herself and set up her lesson times. Well, I guess that’s not so remarkable considering she’s 36-years-old and has been setting her own schedule for quite some time. She told me that learning piano is less of a New Year’s resolution, and more of a “Bucket List” item for her. She wanted to learn as a child, but never had the chance. Now, she has a piano in her home and wants to learn how to make music with it. She chose me to help her with her bucket list. I am thrilled. She’s my first beginner adult piano student. She claims to know nothing about piano or music. Of course, we discovered that yes, indeed, she does know a few things. We looked inside my baby grand, talked about different types of pianos and music and styles of playing and learning. We talked about how music is a connector and that music evokes emotion and memory – which led us to the topic of Alzheimer’s and how someone suffering from memory loss can sing all the words to Amazing Grace but not recognize their own daughter when she walks in the room.
Thank you, God, for the gift of music and it’s healing and connecting powers.
My new student was a little shy about being an older learner. When she walked in, a 5th grade boy was pounding out one of his favorite pieces, a Spanish dance, that he says he’s “addicted to.” How fun is that! And, he’s already claimed it as one of his spring recital pieces. My new student looked at him and said, “One day I’ll be playing like that.”
I said, “It will be sooner than you think.” I want to reassure her that any time is a good time to learn something new, and to erase the old idea that older means you should be more advanced in a craft. It’s like learning a foreign language. You can’t give a philosophical speech if all you can say is “My sock is blue.” We are all at different stages. I’m going to a yoga/pilates class. I’ve gone a few times in the past, very sporadically, so I think of myself as a second semester Kindergartner. I’m not quite to first grade, yet. I can’t even lift my legs over my head and not lose balance. I’m a long ways from standing on my head – might never even get there.
So, go ahead, dive into something on your bucket list. Dare to be the Kindergartner in the activity. Those Kindergartners have all the fun. They fling their arms open wide ready to embrace new things and they’re hungry to learn.
Go. Create. Inspire!
Journaling Prompt: What’s on your bucket list? Write out your list, then pick something to do! My new student has her bucket list on her computer and revisits it now and then.
Here’s one of mine. I’d like to learn to play off the page a little more, play jazz like they do in New Orleans. Also, I’d like to go to a jazz festival.
Mary, I love the quotes you find! And the bucket on the piano bench is great. 🙂
Oh my, I was supposed to do this for an assignment and have yet to fulfill it. So I need to think of just one.
Alright, I’d like to return to Rome. I was there once, as a young gal just ending college, but I didn’t have the appreciation for the Eternal City that I would now. I’d like to give it another shot. I realize it’s a re-do of sorts, but it would be like the first time in many ways. I’m hoping this isn’t just a dream. 🙂
I took piano lessons for about a year when I was a girl, and would love to someday get back to it. I think when we learn a new art-form, it really gives us another lens through which we look at life and are all the richer for it. Kudos to your new student!
I hope your new student has a blast learning to play! Good for her! I never did..well I could play chopsticks..
I have not revisited my bucket list lately..I think a cruise is still on it and a trip to Finland for a Sauna..and a Beach Boys concert. Maybe I just made the list too lofty. However I did get the ride in the convertible..twice. So you never know..I will have to give this some more thought..I have a photo bucket list too:)
I think my list has changed. I really haven’t made a new one that is for this time in my life. I’ll have to give it some thought. :O)
Wonderful post, Mary. I admire your new student for doing something she’s always wanted to try. Someday, I’d like to learn a language and travel. I’d like to take piano, too!
Your student’s bravery is inspiring and motivating for me. It can be hard to show others what we don’t know, but that not-knowing can help us to be more open. It is easier to learn with a humble attitude than with arrogance. 🙂
what a great and inspiring story. I want to travels lots, lots more before I kick the bucket. Fun places like Italy and France and such.
Mary, that is so cool. And the hero of my second novel, who is a composer, has *exactly* the same thought about the healing powers of music at one point in the plot, so it was really cool for me to see you write the same thing. 🙂 I love being friends with musicians. I may not ever play piano, but I can love your gift just as much!
I try not to have too many things on my list at any one time, or I try to take them all on and fizzle out quickly, but I am learning Spanish and taking up a bit of art not for promising results, but for fun (and understanding, as I have to teach a few of those classes in my high school).
That is so cool that she decided to learn the piano.
I would like to learn Lithuainian and also learn how to crochet.
Someday…
Mary, this post is a breath of fresh air! There are SO MANY THINGS I want to be a Kindergartener at! If I could just dig up the time. I know, I know, start small.
Thank you for this! And good for your new student! I think she’s very brave for stepping out and doing something she’s always wanted to do!
Cheers!
Jen